Caroline Clarin is tired.
The 58-year-old Otter Tail County woman, who has helped 10 Afghan families find refuge in the United States, has ended her support for three remaining Afghan refugee families waiting in Pakistan to enter the United States.
“I went to Afghanistan in February 2009 and I’ve literally been in a fight-or-flight state about at least 60 percent of the time since then,” she said. “I just, I don’t have anything anymore.”
In a good-hearted country, we would say, “Hey, Caroline, take a well-deserved break. We’ve got this.”
We have the money to do it. We have the space. We have the need. For years, Caroline and her wife, Sheril Raymond, spent their own money to help “Caroline’s guys” — men she worked with on a U.S. agriculture program in Afghanistan — come to the U.S.
At first, the couple did it on their own, determined that the men and their families who worked with her in a U.S. agriculture program in Afghanistan should not be left behind to the not-so-tender mercies of the Taliban. Two families even lived with the couple in their rural Minnesota home. Caroline personally met one man at the Chicago airport to ensure he made it through customs. She took particular pleasure in how the women, deprived of their rights by the Taliban, learned to drive in the U.S. One of them, who had never received an education, learned to read and write and then to speak English. Caroline taught four refugees to drive, herself.
After the Associated Press wrote about Caroline and Sheril’s efforts in 2021, compassionate readers sent them tens of thousands of dollars. But time passed. Donations dwindled. Caroline, who works full time, began to run out of steam. And money.
Up to the last day of 2024, she helped financially support the three families in Pakistan.